June 20th, 2011 04:16pm
by WineCountry.Mom

It used to feel ultra lonely when they’d leave for their dad’s house and I was stuck in an empty apartment. There is only so much cleaning and straightening that can be done. And the quiet that was once so coveted starts to feel louder than the noise. Even taking advantage of being kid-free by going out still meant I was coming home to an empty house. This time, however, I’m not alone – Mr. W and his son are still around while my kids visit the other half of their life. But even with the added company, it’s hard to know what to do with myself when my whole identity is wrapped up in being a mother.
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TAGS child custody, Co-Parenting, Single Parenting | CATEGORY Single Parenting
June 7th, 2011 12:27pm
by WineCountry.Mom

I hate asking for help. In these past years as a single mom with 98% custody of the kids, I have definitely learned that help is necessary in parenting. But that doesn’t make letting go of the reins any easier. Even worse is when I have to ask for help and it involves a scheduling situation. It’s one thing to ask my parents to watch the kids while they hang out at the house. It’s an entirely different ballpark to ask them to watch the kids, get the Taz to baseball by 5pm, and make sure he has the snacks we bought for the team that must be passed out at the end of the game.
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TAGS kids, schedule, scheduling | CATEGORY As a Parent...., Kid Issues, Single Parenting
March 31st, 2011 08:42am
by WineCountry.Mom

It may have been an imperfect white picket fence reality, but I made it mine and was proud of it. And now I say goodbye to my single mom home.
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TAGS moving in together, shacking up, Single Parenting, WC Mom stories | CATEGORY Blending families, Single Parenting, The Love Front
March 1st, 2011 12:26pm
by WineCountry.Mom

Poor isn’t generally a choice. But for many, especially in this economy, it’s a reality.
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TAGS EBT, food aid, low-income, poor, soccer, soccer snacks | CATEGORY Single Parenting
February 16th, 2011 11:22am
by WineCountry.Mom

When you’ve spent a second lifetime on your own and making sure you’re completely in control, the hardest thing in the world can be to ask for help.
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CATEGORY Single Parenting
January 5th, 2011 09:13am
by WineCountry.Mom

So you’re getting a divorce. And it’s getting ugly. And let’s face it, your ex is an ass.
Have you thought about how the kids are doing?
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CATEGORY Divorce, Single Parenting
January 4th, 2011 12:36pm
by WineCountry.Mom

Putting the kids first also means separating the anger felt towards an ex-husband from the fact that he is still the father of your children.
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CATEGORY Co-Parenting, Divorce, Single Parenting
October 27th, 2010 11:31am
by WineCountry.Mom

Tips on keeping frugal in a tight economy.
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TAGS frugal, money | CATEGORY family, Single Parenting
October 8th, 2010 08:35am
by WineCountry.Mom

Halloween is a kid’s favorite holiday. But it can be a bummer if their parents’ divorce overshadows it.
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TAGS Halloween | CATEGORY holidays, Single Parenting
October 5th, 2010 10:18am
by WineCountry.Mom

That biological clock doesn’t just stop ticking when you’ve had your kids so young. It just pauses for awhile.
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CATEGORY Marriage, pregnancy, Single Parenting, teens